{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Equanimity","provider_url":"https:\/\/equanimity.nu\/en\/","author_name":"Boris Nauta","author_url":"https:\/\/equanimity.nu\/en\/author\/7dfa1800a2b4559c\/","title":"I belong to myself and therefore to everyone","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"lGi09iSnOZ\"><a href=\"https:\/\/equanimity.nu\/en\/i-belong-to-myself-and-therefore-to-everyone\/\">I belong to myself and therefore to everyone<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/equanimity.nu\/en\/i-belong-to-myself-and-therefore-to-everyone\/embed\/#?secret=lGi09iSnOZ\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;I belong to myself and therefore to everyone&#8221; &#8212; Equanimity\" data-secret=\"lGi09iSnOZ\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/equanimity.nu\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n<\/script>\n","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/equanimity.nu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/IMG_8181-scaled-e1634129238500.jpg","thumbnail_width":770,"thumbnail_height":300,"description":"\u2018Belonging\u2019 has always been a difficult subject for me. For a long time, I considered myself an outsider wherever and with whomever I was. But as I got older, something strange happened. Whenever I encountered people from the past, they invariably spoke about me and themselves in terms of \u2018us\u2019 and \u2018we.\u2019 To my astonishment, the memories they shared about us did not suggest at all that I hadn't belonged. What was wrong here?! Had I missed something?"}